Saturday, 2 December 2017

Female virginity and hymen belief

We were discussing about females virginity yesterday and someone was like the only way to know if a girl is a virgin is that it's a must every girl bleeds during her first sex and am sure majority have same mindset and this is wrong Bleeding doesn't determine a girl is a virgin so I decided to release this article to help educate our young men and women on this issue of girls bleeding during first sex THE MYTH ABOUT FEMALE VIRGINITY -why most women won't bleed the first time they have sex. There's a very common myth in South and Central Asia (Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, Afghanistan etc.) and Africa (Nigeria and many other nations ) that you can tell if a woman is a virgin, by whether or not she bleeds the first time she has sex. There is zero truth in this. Not all women bleed the first time they have sex, as I'll explain in this post. To understand why some women bleed and some don't, it's very important to understand what the hymen is. The hymen is a membrane that tends to cover part of the vaginal opening (it does not always block or cover the entire vagina, as some people mistakenly think). NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN. The hymen also differs from woman to woman - like all women have different heights and weights and features, all women also have different amounts and types of hymen. Some women have thick hymens, some have very thin hymens, and some women have NO hymens at all. Some women have larger hymens, some women naturally have a very little amount of hymen that covers only a small portion of their vaginal opening (and hence does not really get in the way, during first-time sex). In addition to this, the hymen wears away on its own as you grow up. For most women, the hymen wears away on its own with exercise, bicycling, horseback riding -it can wear off with pretty much any other physical activity, even dancing! - or from using tampons when menstruating. Especially if the hymen is very small or thin, most of it tends to wear away on its own as a girl grows up. If a woman is born WITHOUT a hymen, she won't bleed the first time she has sex. If a woman has a small or thin hymen, she might not bleed the first time she has sex. If a woman's hymen has worn away on its own (which is very common as girls grow up), she won't bleed the first time she has sex. The result is that the overwhelming majority -at least 63% of women - will NOT bleed the first time they have sex, according to a study published by the British Medical Journal. Women who do bleed include: - Women with thick hymens (who constitute a small percentage of the population) - Younger girls. Because the hymen wears away on its own with time, a 16-year old has a higher chance of bleeding than a 25-year old. By the time a girl is of or above the legal age of consent - 18, 20, 24 years of age, for example - most of her hymen is likely to have worn away on its own, meaning it's unlikely that she'll bleed a lot, if at all. However, even a young girl can be physically active, have a thin or small hymen, or have no hymen at all, meaning she might not bleed during first-time sex. Most often, women who bleed tend to be women who are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy forces himself inside the girl, when she isn't ready, relaxed or aroused enough, he is likely to cause injury or bleeding. Because most people think it's normal for women to bleed the first time they have sex, they don't realize that this bleeding is a result of the woman having been hurt, and not of the hymen 'breaking.' Painful first-time sex is generally because the woman is not relaxed or aroused enough, and gets hurt as a result; it is rarely ever because of the hymen breaking. The bottom line is that there is no way to assess female virginity. Bleeding does not have anything to do with virginity it has to do with the kind of hymen a girl has, and hymens differ from girl to girl from birth. The result is that only a small percentage of women bleed the first time! (Only 37% bleed during first-time sex, according to the study published in the British Medical Journal.) Why is this so important to be aware of? Women all over the world get abused, injured and even killed due to the myth of 'virgin bleeding.' Because most people (men AND women) think that bleeding is a sign of virginity, women who don't bleed the first time have been divorced, suffered from suspicion leading to domestic violence and abuse, and even killed for honour. Educating people that a girl does not necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sex - because not all girls have thick hymens, and some are born with no hymen at all - is important because it can literally save lives. P.S: I understand that not everyone is able to share material like this, even if they want to. However, the only way we can educate people regarding this issue is if it goes into the news feeds of as many people as possible, if as many people as possible read it. So please consider sharing. If you can't share, please like, leave a comment or forward it to your ,

Friday, 27 October 2017

Our mindset


The way the youths of today see wealth is different from the way our fathers did. To them riches at all cost without minding the consequences. If not how will our today parents not dwell or be able to rebuke their children when they flaunt I'll gotten riches? While the current government is working to better the lots of Nigerians,some Nigerians are busy destroying the country. My problem with the presidential team is their inability to handle our economy effectively and proffer lasting solution to the current national parasite called corruption.

Sunday, 3 September 2017

ELECCIÓN DE ANAMBRA UNA PRUEBA DE LITMUS PARA APC EN EL ESTE


TODO EL CONGRESO PROGRESIVO PARTIDO CONOCERÁ SU STAND ENTRE EASTERNERS DEL RESULTADO DE LA VELOCIDAD DE LA ELABORACIÓN ANAMBRA. EN 2015, FUE COMO NINGUNO NUNCA QUISIERA ESCUCHAR LA PALABRA APC EN LOS ESTADOS ORIENTALES DONDE TODOS EMBALANZARON EN UN AUTOBUS DE PDP. HOY LA APC HA COMER TAN PROFUNDAMENTE EN LA ESTRATEGIA ORIENTAL PERO ESTA AUN SER UNA PRUEBA DE SU LEALDAD. PODRIA SER QUE ESTÁN PROFESANDO CON SUS LABIOS MIENTRAS QUE SUS CORAZONES SON TODAVÍA LEJOS DE LOS TENETES DE TODO EL CONGRESO PROGRESIVO. ESTÉ ASEGURADA DE LA INCLUSIVIDAD Y EL DESARROLLO QUE SABE QUE LA APC ES UNA FIESTA QUE HONRE SU PALABRA. LAS PERSONAS SON JOSTLING Y LUCHANDO PARA SER EL PORTADOR DE LA BANDERA DE APC QUE CULMINA EN ALREDEDOR DE 12 ASPIRANTES QUE SUEÑAN DE VOLAR FINALMENTE LA BANDERA DE APC COMO OPUESTO AL MÍNIMO POCO O NINGUNO EN LA ÚLTIMA ELECCIÓN ANAMBRA EXCEPTO ROCHAS OKOROCHA DEL ESTADO DE LA IMO.

ANAMBRA ELECTION A LITMUS TEST FOR APC IN THE EAST


sayuerif kl hizb kunghursaa mutajadid mawqifih min bayn almustawtinin min natijat alaintikhabat alqadimat lil'anambara. fi eam 2015, fa'iinah la yurid ay wahid min 'ayi waqt madaa yurid 'an yasmae kalimat 'abik fi alduwal alsharqiat hayth kla mueba'at fi hafilat min badb. alyawm 'abak qad 'akalat hataa eamiqat fi shrq satrata walakun dhlk 'an yakun ladayk dalil ealaa luayalti. ymkn 'an yakun hula' hum aldhyn yueanun min shafahihim fi hyn 'ana qalbahum la tazal farighat min al'alghaz min jmye alkwnghrs altaqadumii yatimu alta'akud min alshumuliat waltanmiat alty yaerif kl 'an 'abak hu altaraf aldhy alsharaf alkalamaat. <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-client="ca-pub-2051893162030045" data-ad-slot="6318044038"></ins> <script> undefinedadsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).pushundefined{}); </script> alnaas yatalahaqun wayukafihun 'an yakunuu 'abk falaj biral yakhtatim fi nahw 12 'asbirantis aldhy yahlam 'akhiraan yatir ealim min 'abik kama hu rafad 'iilaa alhadi al'adnaa 'aw la shay' fi akhir aintikhabat 'anambraan biaistithna' rushas 'uwkurusha min 'iimu satat.

ANAMBRA ELECTION A LITMUS TEST FOR APC IN THE EAST


THE ALL PROGRESSIVE CONGRESS PARTY WILL KNOW THEIR STAND AMONG EASTERNERS FROM THE RESULT OF THE FORTH COMING ANAMBRA ELECTION. IN 2015, IT WAS LIKE NO ONE EVER WANTED TO HEAR THE WORD APC IN EASTERN STATES WHERE THEY ALL PACKED INTO A BUS OF PDP. TODAY THE APC HAS EATEN SO DEEP INTO THE EASTERN STRATA BUT THAT IS YET TO BE A PROOF OF THEIR LOYALTY.IT COULD BE THAT THEY ARE PROFESSING WITH THEIR LIPS WHILE THEIR HEART ARE STILL FAR FROM THE TENETS OF THE ALL PROGRESSIVE CONGRESS.THEY HAVE BEEN ASSURED OF INCLUSIVENESS AND DEVELOPMENT WHICH ALL KNOWS THAT THE APC IS A PARTY THAT HONOURS HER WORDS. <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-client="ca-pub-2051893162030045" data-ad-slot="6318044038"></ins> <script> undefinedadsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).pushundefined{}); </script> PEOPLE ARE JOSTLING AND FIGHTING TO BE THE APC FLAG BEARER CULMINATING INTO ABOUT 12 ASPIRANTS WHO DREAM OF FINALLY FLYING THE FLAG OF APC AS OPPOSED TO THE MINIMUM FEW OR NONE AT THE LAST ANAMBRA ELECTION EXCEPT ROCHAS OKOROCHA OF IMO STATE.

Friday, 1 September 2017

BELIEVE IN THYSELF (YOU HAVE NOT FAILED)


The today generation of Nigeria is to learn from their heroes past and from others. The art of inventing is a process of finding many ways that a particular invention will not work until it finally works. The years of certificate is beginning to wane. It’s now the era of effective and constructive thinking, purposeful brainstorming and working zeal. Who says you can’t lead or who says you can’t be the billionaire of your time without certificate par say? <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-client="ca-pub-2051893162030045" data-ad-slot="6318044038"></ins> <script> undefinedadsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).pushundefined{}); </script> The fact that you are a school dropout or that your parents could not afford to pay you school fees is not a yardstick for you not to be educated. All over the world, the major national and global benefactors are not those with certificate but those who have decided to grow above just certificate. WHAT IDEA DID YOU START BUT BECAUSE YOU FELT IT FAILED YOU, YOU STOPPED AND NEVER TRIED AGAIN? WHAT IS IT YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW THAT YOU WANT TO DO THAT YOU FEEL WILL CHANGE THE WORLD FOR GOOD BUT U ARE AFRAID TO START BECAUSE YOU DONOT WANT TO FAIL? Stop giving up on yourself. Even though the entire world has given up on you, it means nothing but the moment you lose faith in yourself, you have lost. When the whole world gave up on you, you were winning with thy self believe but when you lose faith in your abilities and capabilities, the world started winning. But you can begin all over again. (C)EMEKUMEVINCENTO2017

BUHARI IS BACK. WHAT NEXT?


The weaker animals are now happy that the lion king is back. One will begin to wonder what will happen to the hyenas and the jackals that have been tumbling and whispering wishing that the lion king does not wake up from his sleep. Another set of people to look out for are the doom wishers of Mr. President in the likes of Fani Kayode, Reno Omokri, Gov Fayose and those who believe that their lifestyle can only be in the villa. I pity those who threw caution to the wind in wishing the president dead. <script async src="//pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:block; text-align:center;" data-ad-format="fluid" data-ad-layout="in-article" data-ad-client="ca-pub-2051893162030045" data-ad-slot="6318044038"></ins> <script> undefinedadsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).pushundefined{}); </script> If the situation we found ourselves today as a nation repeats itself in the future, we would conclude that the hyenas and the jackals were not driven from the Aso rock villa as promised. The hate speech sponsors will tighten their belt and dish out more money from their state treasury to achieve a selfish purpose as opposed to national interest.